Lies, SPIES & Butterflies, the book, is the complete version of the owner’s manual. Like all good manuals, it first describes how our humanness works, problematic systems that are prone to go awry, then provides us with step-by-step maintenance and practice to assure we are optimizing our lives.
Kirk P,
Conservationist

Something magical and uplifting happens when reading Lies, SPIES & Butterflies. I actually sensed an inner expansion while reading it. It’s very relatable. This book engages readers experientially and asks good questions.
Sandi R
Somatic Coach

Lies, Spies, and Butterflies is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to understand themselves better and navigate the complexities of life with greater clarity and purpose. It offers
a compassionate and insightful guide to becoming ones best self, making it a must-read for those on a journey of self-
discovery and personal transformation.
Laurie
MS,Ed, Biological Sciences High School Teacher

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Because Every Part of You Matters…

S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ for personal growth helps you discover your five multidimensional perspectives—guiding you with warmth, intention, and purpose.

What the S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ Can Do For You

Helping you reconnect, realign, and thrive, one dimension at a time.

Many people push themselves past their limits until stress turns into exhaustion. The S.P.I.E.S. Allies, A Human Alignment System teaches you how to recognize the signals from your body, emotions, and mind before they spiral out of control. By listening to your Allies, you’ll know when to rest, when to take action, and when to reset. This shift helps you manage energy more effectively, break the cycle of burnout, and create sustainable habits that keep you strong and balanced.

When your thoughts, feelings, and actions don’t line up, it’s easy to feel confused or stuck. The S.P.I.E.S. Allies gives you tools to bring all of your Allies into harmony, so instead of pulling in different directions, they work as a team. By aligning your Intellectual clarity with your Emotional truth and your Soulful purpose, decisions become easier and more confident. You stop second-guessing and start moving forward with direction and peace of mind.

It’s hard to connect deeply with others when you’re disconnected from yourself. The S.P.I.E.S. Allies helps you understand your own needs and triggers through the lens of your Emotional and Social Allies, so you can communicate more clearly and compassionately. As you strengthen your inner balance, you naturally show up with more patience, empathy, and authenticity in your relationships. This creates healthier connections with family, friends, colleagues, and community.

Addictive behaviors often arise when we ignore or silence parts of ourselves. Whether it’s overworking, unhealthy eating, substances, or other coping strategies, these patterns are attempts to soothe unmet needs. The S.P.I.E.S. Allies helps you understand what your Allies are truly asking for and offers healthier ways to respond. By working with your Emotional Ally to recognize triggers, your Physical Ally to rebuild strength, and your Soulful Ally to reconnect with purpose, you learn to replace destructive habits with supportive, life-giving practices.

Life’s challenges are unavoidable, but how you respond to them makes all the difference. With S.P.I.E.S. Allies, you learn practices that strengthen your ability to adapt and recover. By tuning into your Physical Ally for stamina, your Intellectual Ally for problem-solving, and your Soulful Ally for meaning, you build a foundation of resilience that helps you stay grounded even in difficult times. Instead of feeling knocked down by stress, you discover how to bounce back faster and stronger.

Many people live according to outside expectations, trying to be who others want them to be instead of who they truly are. The S.P.I.E.S. Allies helps you reconnect with your Soulful Ally — the part of you that is compassionate, creative, and curious. By integrating that authentic self with the wisdom of your other Allies, you begin to live in a way that feels true to who you are. This creates more joy, fulfillment, and alignment in everyday life.

Old wounds, whether from childhood, relationships, or life’s hardships, often shape how we think, feel, and act today. The S.P.I.E.S. Allies creates a safe, compassionate space to acknowledge these experiences without letting them control you. By engaging your Emotional Ally for healing, your Intellectual Ally for reframing the story, and your Soulful Ally for forgiveness and growth, you begin to transform pain into wisdom. This healing process allows you to move forward lighter, freer, and more open to life’s possibilities.

S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ The Human Alignment System…From Awareness to Being: the 5 Phases of Your SPIES Journey

Explore the five transformative phases that shape the S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ journey: Allowing, Bridging, Aligning, Harmonizing, and Being.

Allowing

First Phase

With curiosity and openness, you start learning the S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ —marking the first phase of your metamorphosis. This foundational step sets the stage for growth, transformation, and connection within our organizational culture.

Bridging

Second phase

With an expanded understanding of the conceptual framework, you move into the next level of your metamorphosis. This marks a clear progress and deeper acknowledgment of the core concepts.

Aligning

Third Phase

With openness for each of your S.P.I.E.S. perspectives, you feel more comfortable in your journey. This stage marks the third level of your metamorphosis—the starting point of self-integration and coherence.

Harmonizing

forth Phase

At this stage, you’re consciously embracing your deeper purpose—bringing all your S.P.I.E.S. perspectives together into a unified, harmonious whole.

Being

Last Phase

You are now expressing your aligned truth by living as S.P.I.E.S. Savvy—representing the culmination of your metamorphosis.

S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ The Human Alignment System Conquers Loneliness by Reconnecting with Yourself and Others.

Prevalence Among Adults: Approximately 52% of Americans report feeling lonely, with 47% stating their relationships lack meaning. – Master Mind Behavior

SPIES is the inspiration to find my path at becoming my butterfly and to interact with loved ones and situations in a healthier way than ever before.

-Jeana

Client and SPIES Allies™ Friend

SPIES Allies™ for personal growth is the inspiration to find my path at becoming my butterfly and to interact with loved ones and situations in a healthier way than ever before.

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Co-Author of the bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul™ series, and A Pioneer in the Field of Personal Development and Peak Performance.

The S.P.I.E.S. Allies™ Team

Your dedicated team to help you in your S.P.I.E.S. journey

Leslie Kornstein

Author of Lies, SPIES™ & Butterflies
Owner, Creator and Master SPIES Coach

Leslie Kornstein began her journey as a Special Education teacher after earning a Master of Science in Education. Over time, her path expanded into healing and self-discovery. As a certified BreathWalk Instructor, she turned inward to find peace after enduring traumatic losses. These include multiple miscarriages and a near-death experience. These challenges deepened her connection to her soulful self and sharpened her intuitive instincts.
Due to crohn’s disease she was faced with the prospect of medical removal of her intestines. Leslie chose a different path by embracing holistic healing. She immersed herself in practices like QiGong and Spiritual Psychology, and later became a certified Equine Assisted Coach.
At Ruach Ranch, her home and sanctuary, Leslie created the SPIES Allies™ Coaching Framework—a multidimensional approach to personal transformation. Her story and work come to life in her book, Lies, SPIES & Butterflies. It was written to inspire others to heal, grow, and reconnect with who they truly are.

Michelle Goddard

Relationship Manager Jr. SPIES™ Coach

Michelle was an award-winning Registered Nurse, fueled by compassion. Her journey led her into holistic practices where she witnessed powerful connection between mind, body, and spirit.

Everything in her life changed after a seizure triggered a car accident, which left her in chronic pain. Her emotional and physical stress deepened, turning Michelle to drugs. Through embracing SPIES Allies™ personal growth framework her healing began. Through this, she gained an understanding that helped her confront her addiction, ultimately leading her to Boulder Care. Now in recovery, Michelle trains under Leslie, becoming a certified SPIES Allies™ coach. Her commitment to guiding others is evident—especially those navigating addiction or seeking greater self-awareness.

Emily Kornstein

Operations MGR

Emily earned her bachelor’s degree in organizational leadership. After which, she spent more than 20 years in the corporate hustle before deciding to align her work with her values. She is skilled in bookkeeping, project management, business operations, and client engagement. These strengths make her a trusted go-to for turning ideas into action and chaos into order. Emily brings the SPIES philosophy to life. She integrates SPIES Allies™ into the website, videos, and learning tools. This approach supports personal growth for the team and the people they serve.

Additional SPIES™ Team

Facilities Management

Our dedicated ranch team keeps the UpLevel Your Life headquarters running smoothly. They maintain the land, facilities, and daily operations of the working ranch we call home. Horses, chickens, and dogs bring vibrancy to the property. The team adds expertise in land management and infrastructure upkeep. Together, they create a space that reflects the core values of the SPIES Allies™ philosophy. These values include balance, care, and intentional living. Their work ensures that our headquarters remains a peaceful and purposeful environment where growth, connection, and innovation can truly thrive.